showing anger

she learn to show us her anger, by saying 'tidak mau'--'gak mau'. 'dont want to'

when i asked her to take a bath,
she said, 'bian gak mau mandi..'----bian doesn't want to bath

when her daddy asked her to clean up her messy toys,
she replayed, 'bian tidak mau cleap up, pah...' ---- bian doenst wanna clean up, papa...

when i asked her to use her sandals
she said, 'no, tidak mau, mah....' --- 'no, i dont want to, mom...'

when daddy picked up her at school,
she refused by saying, 'no, papa...gak mau naik mobil papa, mau naik taksi' ---- 'no, papa, i dont wanna use papa's car. i wanna use taxi...'

when bian n i wanted to go home from my office, we stopped a taxi...
she commented, 'mom, kok taksinya merah, mau yang pink?' ---- 'mom, why do u choose red taxi, i wanna the yellow one.'

she said the 'gak-mau' words with lil-high-tone n her face 'merengut'

KOK?

as i remembered, bian started to ask with word 'KOK' as a first question mark in a couple weeks before her 3rd birthday.

the questions are like

'kok mama kerja?' 'why does mommy go to work?'
'kok naik motor?' 'why do we use motorcycle?'

or the simple one

'kok gitu, mah?' 'why does it like that, mommy?'

and i realized that 'kok' means like why...

we try to answer every single question with 'kok' as a guestion mark.
meaning, she learn to analize something autodidact.

then,
last couple days..
when she got fever, because of 'gabakan', she asked me to go to toilet. she needed to pee.
then we saw a earthworm on the floor. i threw a bowl of water to flush it into the toilet's hole.

'kok ada cacing, ma?' 'why is there a worm, mom?'

'coz, there's a hole, so it can come in, honey.'

'kok disiram, mah?' ..'why do you need to flush it, mom?'

'cos, we need to send it back to the ground. it cant live on the floor.'

'o, gitu ya...tapi kok-kok aku takut sama cacing, ma?' 'i see, but, why-why am i affraid of the worm, mom?'

then..i'm speechless...coz i really-really dont know why she's affraid of the worm.

'mhm..i dont know honey, maybe cos u've never seen a worm on our toilet, maybe...how do you think?'

'aku gak takut kok.' 'i'm not affraid, yes i do..'

LOL!

bian learn to eat spicy food

its really amazed me, for honest. cos in the same time, i start to worry about her tasty, she likes the sweet and choco. for example she will choose choco bread than banana bread, or she's hapier if u give her candy than a glass of juice.

her tooth are the things that i'm worried most about.

until yesterday, she refused to sleep because her papa bought chicken-noodle. she waited her papa patiently. when she asked for a spoon of noodle, her papa said, 'oh..honey, its quite spicy.'

yep... the seller put the chili on the top of the noodle.

out our expectation, she still wanted to taste it..
the she put the noodle on the spoon and then ate it slowly...and i prepared a glass of water.
she drank the water immediately after she swallowed the noodle

hahaha...
she ate more than 5 spoons, FYI....
wow... she pass the first test!

then, today
after she took a nap, she woke up and saw me eating a spicy keripik singkong, that i bought from warung padang after lunch.

then,
she grabbed a piece of keripik singkong...and then she run for a glass of water.
she brought the glass of water to me, and put it on the table.

then,
she grabbed another piece of keripik....swallowed it...and drank the water
she did it more than 5 times..

OK, she had her second spicy test in 24 hours.
good!

and i think she passed the 2nd test, also.

5 minutes after the last keripik singkong, she asked me to tear a choco bar.

'what do you think, B, which one it the most delicious, spicy keripik singkong or choco bar?'

'spicy keripik singkong-laa....' she answered and ate the choco bar in the same time.

'oh, really...'

'hehe..no mama, i like the choco bar most...'

OK..
atleast u have tried the spice food, already..

3rd b'day

lil-B celebrated her b'day with

• her long curly hair
• used bandana
• still choose pinky-pink as dominat color
• her daddy chose the bigger b'day cake, with pink color and many princesses on it. oya..there is a castle, too..
• we celebrated with her sunday school friends, on 14th June 2009
• we chose a white-mug, as a gift for her friends, because from now on she uses glass instead of bottle when she drink milk.
• the mug is fill with a coco-wafer, beng-beng and a box of UHT.
• we put a sticker in each mug
• we boughther b'day dress at night before the day, after i arrived @ adisucipto.
• yep, i was @ toraja for couple weeks, and her daddy the 'person in charge' prepared her b'day.
• she got a lot of gifts, maybe because we gave them a 'pretty' mug..*big grin*
• a special gift from me is a little bible
• from her father is a fashionable barbie...*yes...a barbie...'

happy b'day lil-B.. we're happy for everything on you...

sometimes, me-myself think that in a very-soon, u'll not a 'lil'-B anymore.

tumbuh besar dan sehat, anakku!

#1 celebrating Kartini day

simple as usual, i dont wanna be panic during preparation lil-B's first celebrating kartini day.
all i need is casual wardrobe plus traditional clothes of simalungun, called bulang for the head-cover and suri-suri for the selendang.

here she goes...pretty as usual, doesn't she?

lomba paskah pertama

ya, bian udah mo 3 tahun, jadi sudah memiliki kemampuan yang bisa diadu dalam lomba paskah.

seperti:
MENCARI TELUR...
*BIG GRIN*

tapi, karna mama melihat kemampuan akan 'coret-mencoret' sangat pesat perkembangannya, baiklah kita ikutkan pula dia pada lomba MENGHIAS TELURwah-wah, terlalu ambisius sekali?!! mhmmhhhmmm, iya sih....
tapi klo dilihat2, kemampuannya tidak bisa diremehkan, terlebih lagi dia punya kemampuan untuk mengacak-acak, menyobek-nyobek, mengadul-adul, menarik-narik, memasukan, menempel, menuangkan, menyeluarkan kertas-pensil-rautan-play dooh, boneka dan peralatan masak dari plastik.

yep! noted!

mama kudu mencari kreatifitas yang dikerjakan dengan 'hanya' melakukan kegiatan di atas.

mhmhhhmhmhmhmmmm...*mikir*

ada apa ya di rumah?
*ada cangkir plastik aqua
TRING!!!

kemudian mama ada ide. dipraktekkan sebelum berangkat ke gereja, eh...berhasil-berhasil *gaya dora*.

lalu, digereja, setelah lomba cari telur dapet 3 butir, lomba menghias telur pun diadakan.
01. adul-adul..sobek-sobek kertas warna warninya
02. masukkan ke dalam gelas plastik, sampe gelasnya penuh
03. telur rebus di tempelin dengan stiker
04. setelah itu, telur dicoret-coret dengan pensil warna dan spidol aneka warna
05. letakkan telur di atas gelas plastik.
JADI DEH....

dan hasilnya sangat memuaskan!
bian JUARA I kategori kelas kecil!!

sip, selamat ya anakku!!!
muah-muah...

yang bangga,
mama.

ps. fotonya g ada, nanti di copy dari kakak ine.
foto diatas dari sini

berenang bikin senang

Untuk sabtu itu, kami sudah siap-siap sejak beberapa hari yang lalu, agar tujuan week end kali ini adalah renang. Sehingga kami terhindar dari mall, yang merupakan tempat yang selalu ingin dituju oleh Bian, kala mengisi waktu libur maupun weekend.

Caranya bisa dicermati seperti ini;
• sudah mengkomunikasikan bahwa renang itu asyik seminggu sebelumnya.
• Abis renang kita makan yang bian mau

Halah…hasilnya sangat standart banget, bian kadang terlihat antusias, kadang emoh-emohan. Jadi kami kudu mencari cara ‘promosi’ lain

Caranya seperti ini;
• Mengajak main ke rumah kakak uan [pasqualica], sambil cerita dulu di bali, kak uan berenang terus, dan asyik sekali.
• Mengajak kakak uan juga berenang hari sabtu

Yay berhasil.

Jadilah kami berenang sabtu itu. Pagi2 bian sudah hiper-diper bahagia siap-siap renang, sampe over acting menuang mainan karena kelamaan nunggu mama siap-siap. Lah..mama itu lama karena kudu nyiapin banyak ;

| baju renang | baju ganti | alat2 mandi | minyak kayu putih-bedak-minyak tawon-vicks | handuk |susu-botol-termos panas & dingin | pelampung mobil2an & rompi |

Belum lagi kegiatan standart pagi-pagi, yaitu memberi sarapan. Hiks..pokoke riuh reda.

Setelah jemput kakak uan, kami pun berangkat-lah ke banyu mili-griya mahkota. Setelah bayar tiket masuk renang, kami pun mulai berenang sana-sini. Main cipak-cipuk air. Setelah muter2, kita parkir di kolam 40cm sambil ngawasin kakak uan dan bian main ‘belanja-belanjaan’ dengan batu-batu yang terdapat di dasar kolam. Batu-batu itu disusun sedemikian rupa, lalu ditawarkan ke mama-papa dan nantulang.

Tau-taunya, ditemukan batu jenis lain di dasar kolam 1 m yang berdampingan tanpa batas dengan kolam 40 cm itu. Papa pun mendemonstrasikan ilmu menyelam pada bian dan kakak uan. Mereka berdua teriak-teriak dan tertawa lepas acap kali papa muncul dengan mengacungkan batu2 lucu di tangannya.

Hingga, tanpa sadar, bian sudah berjalan hingga bibir lantai pembatas kolam 40 cm dan 1 m dan LEP…kelelep…..

Segera mama menarik bian dan mendirikannya di kolam 40 cm. Mama menepuk punggung bian untuk membantu meredekan batuknya karna kelelep tadi.

‘bian gak pa-pa?’, tanya mama khawatir.
Bian masih terlihat bingung, hanya menatap mama.
‘gak pa-pa kok bian, kakak uan juga dulu kelelep kok, waktu berenang di bali dulu’, kata kakak uan menenangkan.
Bian menatap kakak uan, hendak memastikan kebenaran.
‘iya loh…tapi jadi tau gimana berenang…jadi gak pa-pa kok..’ kata kakak uan lagi
‘tuh, gak pa-pa kata kak uan… sudah, sana jualan batu lagi,’ mama menguatkan keterangan kakak uan.

Karena merasa bahwa kejadian kelelep barusan emang ‘gak pa-pa’, bian langsung mau melanjutkan mainan lagi. Wah…syukurlah…

Wah, padahal ya, mama juga masih deg-degan mengingat bian kelelep tadi :D